12 GREEN FLAGS IN DATING

12 GREEN FLAGS WE SHOULD LOOK FOR IN DATING

BY:  EVELYN NECOSIA NAROLLO

In dating, we always look for our best self towards the other person for them to like us back. This is the stage where we want them to see that we are a good catch. In return, in dealing with the one we have dated since we are human beings, we see 1 flaw over 9 good attributes, right? Are you going to relate to this? If not. It’s okay. I am just speaking with the truth. 

So instead of micros coping and wait for the red flag to come out, why can’t we just focus on the Green Flag instead? Green Flags are the good behavior that we give off in dealing with someone we are dating.

 

We’re always hearing about the red flags of dating, which are important to be aware of, but  it would be nice to know about the green flags in dating.

In this article, I am going to tackle the GREEN FLAGS you should be aware of. These are the signs you should look for in order for you to be sure if someone seriously into you. 

Let us begin.

Here are the: 11 GREEN FLAGS IN DATING

Sign no 1 . THEY DO ALWAYS CHECK ON YOU

They do not let a single day of not hearing from your side. You are on their mind even if they are busy. They will never let you feel unimportant because to them you are special. If you are special to someone, they cannot let a single without hearing from you.

Sign no 2 . THEY DO APOLOGIZE WHEN THEY ARE WRONG

Conflicts are inevitable in a relationship; small petty arguments are always there. They are able to own up to a mistake and recognize that they have hurt someone by doing so.

Sign no 3 . WORDS ARE ALIGN WITH THEIR BEHAVIOUR

They own their words and for them, it has absolute value that they are willing to make that word happen. They practice what they preach and fulfill their promises. They are not hypocritical about their statements.

Sign no 4 . THEY ENCOURAGE YOUR CONNECTIONS WITH OTHERS (FRIENDS, FAMILY)

They are curious about your personal relationship, and they want to engage on that same level. They want you to have meaningful connections that may not necessarily involve them and feel good while doing so.

Sign no 5. THEY SPEAK ABOUT THEIR EX-PARTNER WITH RESPECT

Things may not have worked out with their ex-partners, but they don’t resort to talking rudely about them. Instead, they talk about them with respect and acceptance that things might not end good with the past but, they have shared good memories.

Sign no 6. THEY COMMUNICATE CLEARLY AND HONESTLY

They are not the wishy-washy type of person who slides a text message at 3am nor just chat you because they want something from you, rather they know what they need to say and how to say it. Most importantly, they do so truthfully.

Sign no 7. THEY SET HONOR AND RESPECT BOUNDARIES

They may not be comfortable doing certain things and understand that you feel the same way about other things. They don’t go against these boundaries without communicating them with you first.

Sign no 8. THEY SHOW UP AUTHENTICALLY AND OFFER YOU SPACE TO DO THE SAME

They have the “what you see is what you get” kind of person vibe in their aura. They don’t have a false mask, because what you feel for them is exactly what they are. They do not lie about who they are or hide anything about themselves. They want to be real with you.

Sign no 9. THEY ARE INTENTIONAL ABOUT RESOLVING CONFLICTS

They are not immature nor silent If something came up. They recognize that something is wrong and are willing to put in the effort to correct the issue at hand.

Sign no 10. THEY ARE ACTIVELY WORKING ON GROWTH AND HEALING

They are in a constant building their self-growth. They want to be a better version of themselves and are doing a little bit each day to get there.

Sign no 11. THEY SHARE COMPATIBLE GOALS FOR THE RELATIONSHIP

You both know what you want from the relationship and are motivated to reach those goals. They will let you know where you stand in the relationship. They will include you in their future plans.

Sign no 12. THEY MAKE YOU FEEL HEARD AND APPRECIATED

They want you to feel comfortable with coming to them about how things are going for you and want to listen to your stories.

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