9 LEGIT SIGNS A MAN LIKES YOU ON YOUR FIRST DATE
9 SIGNS A MAN LIKES YOU ON YOUR FIRST DATE
PUBLISHED BY: EVELYN NECOSIA NAROLLO
LAST UPDATED: FEBRUARY 22, 2021
Writing this article may seem pretty easy for those people who are in the dating period. It is not about you being an expert but it is just being observant, knowing that I am a keen observer myself. Dating in this modern world seem to be like dating too many options, most of the time, since we are spoon feed by technology, courting is somewhat easier rather than said and done. Talking about courting, men nowadays I am not saying everyone but most of the men in the new generation doesn’t put much effort into making a courtship. We all depend on the fast tech swipe, not just men but women as well. I am not gender bias here. I gather this information base on my experienced in dating men for years.
Here are the lists of the signs that a man likes in your
first date and will absolutely is already planning to have a second date with
you.
SIGN NUMBER 1.
· HE WILL LOOK INTO YOUR EYES LIKE HE IS READING YOUR SOUL
It might sound a bit creepy and a bit uncomfy but a man who
is smitten by you at the first glance will be curious about you and thus will
stare at you like you are the most beautiful woman he had ever seen. He is like
in his mind “I cannot believe I have dated a woman such as fine as her.” You
will notice that more often than not because he will be like looking attentively
because he was captured by your beauty.
SIGN NUMBER 2.
· HE WILL ASK YOU QUESTION
MORE THAN YOU ASK HIM
I know dating on the first day, given that both of you don’t
know each other yet. You will notice that instead of him telling stories about
himself, men do this to impress a girl. Men are already smitten by you because
he is more than a curious one who gets to know you and he is inclined to what you
are saying, he will listen to you and ask you a lot of more follow-up
questions. I am talking about those questions that are more in-depth.
SIGN NUMBER 3.
· YOU WILL FEEL
COMFORTABLE AROUND HIM
Ever gone to a date wherein you quickly just don’t like the person in the first place not because of his appearance but because of the vibe that he gives off towards you? Well, the opposite for this is, if you ever feel like you are in your best self, sitting with this new guy and you are confident in what you are chitchatting to him, chances are is that he likes you even if you haven’t known that. You will be at ease and you feel safe around him. You will not feel the awkwardness because he does make you feel like you are worth to date with and he assures that with his actions not just with words.
SIGN NUMBER 4.
· HE IS EXTRA GENTLEMAN
If you notice that he is opening the door for you, he subtle
wants to be near you all the time and wants to make sure that you are feeling
safe, this man surely likes you. He will offer you what food do you want to
eat, and would like to compromise the menu because he wants you to be
comfortable and not just please him but he wants it to be as smooth as he wants
it to be.
SIGN NUMBER 5.
· ON HIS MIND, HE IS
ALREADY PLANNING YOUR NEXT DATE
A man who likes you will process all the little details you
said. If he likes you, he will remember the things you mentioned about the
things you want to do, your hobbies, your aspirations. He will now ask if you
are available on these said dates. Because he is looking forward for you two to
be together again. He will not give you a “maybe” or “let’s see” because a real
man who likes you will never give you a mixed signal and thus he will be very
clear to you in his intentions. He will give you a solid date and perhaps the
time.
· HE WILL COMPLIMENT YOU
QUITE OFTEN AND MEANS IT
He surely likes you and this is the most obvious sign if he
constantly compliments you. He might compliment something you don’t know about
yourself. He will be very keen and observe how you move or even how you breathe. It
is a bit too exaggerating but this is true. A man who isn’t trying to please
you or doesn’t even compliment you even if you look good is not interested in
you. But there is a difference between a genuine compliment or a lustful compliment.
You can differentiate it by the way they say it to you. The way they give a
subtle smile while telling you how beautiful you are is the most obvious sign. And you can feel it in his eyes that he is telling the truth because you will feel it in your heart.
SIGN NUMBER 7.
· HE IS FINANCIALLY INVESTED
IN YOU
He will treat you like a princess. He will not be stingy to
you. A man who sees you as their potential partner in the very beginning will
shower you with what you deserve. If a man is kind of stingy he doesn’t like to
invest in you. Most likely he is just testing playing around. Would you date someone who will ask you to pay for the bill? Think of it as a stepping stone of your possible relationship with him if he pursues you in the future. A man will build up and give you everything in the world if he does like you.
SIGN NUMBER 8.
HIS BODY LANGUAGE SCREAMS LOUDER THAN HIS WORDS
You will notice his body language wants to be near you. He will mimic your body expression. One obvious sign that he likes you is when he will copy whatever movement that you are going to do. Take this as a little secret that I share with you. If he notices your little movement chances are this man likes you. Test him, pretend to check your watch if you have, and if he copies you. Perfect, he is surely right on his mind that he likes you. Without him realizing that.
SIGN NUMBER 10.
HE FORGETS ABOUT HIS PHONE
Most of the women tend to forget about this most obvious, we give the man the benefit of the doubt saying maybe it's urgent, maybe he needs to send a reply. But girls, nobody want's to date someone who constantly on his phone. On the other hand, a man who likes you will forget that he has a phone, in short, he will be more focused on getting to know you.
Men are not actually complicated as we think they are. Unlocking them to know their true intention is quite difficult. I know. So here I am, unlocking it for you to be able to have the courage to speak up on your end as well, do not just wait for men to lurk into your head and start to believe that this man likes me even if the sign above does not meet the criteria. I am here to help you ladies. And do not forget that, “Men are the hunters, they like to chase.” So, do not chase them. Because if they truly like you, they will do everything on this earth to keep you in their life.
More related topics to come. Stay tuned!
Love Muchly,
& Your Relationship Guide,
Belle
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