12 THINGS WOMEN SIMPLY CRAVES IN A RELATIONSHIP

7 THINGS YOU SHOULD DO IF YOUR WOMAN IS PULLING HER FEELINGS AWAY 

BY: EVELYN NAROLLO

( 8 mins read )

There is no perfect relationship nor perfect girlfriend and boyfriend. We can only be what we are and what we can give and take in the relationship. We define the relationship as a union wherein we are co-dependent with another person, we have responsibilities to acquire and require daily just to make it a solid foundation and will not crash if someone wants to crash it along the way.

A woman will most likely feel more codependent with their partner as the relationship time goes by whereas men in the relationship are more of self-discovery and chill and if the woman won’t address this at the very beginning of the relationship, this person will always be like what he is in the very beginning.

This leads to making the woman feel less of herself because she will be thinking that her partner in the relationship is not making any future goals, plans. While many think, especially men, they think maybe. I don’t know exactly because I am not a man. Men think that if a woman pulls away from her feelings he automatically thinks that she is just having a hard time on themselves, they want to be alone, they want to focus more on themselves, and so on.

Neither of these things will happen if you are always clear of what you are in the relationship.

In this article, I will let you understand and give you insights on how to reignite the deadly fire that might cause why your woman pulls her feelings away.

WHAT ARE THE THINGS THAT YOU NEED TO DO TO REIGNITE THE DYING RELATIONSHIP AND IF YOUR WOMAN IS PULLING HER FEELINGS AWAY?

1. INITIATE A SINCERE HEART TO HEART TALK

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You have been in an incredible relationship with your partner, and then suddenly you notice there is a slight chance that you might be wondering. Might be you two are not as much as happy as before, things maybe change because you are far away from each other. Talk with her sincerely, and if you have a chance, make time to do it face to face. Understand her emotion why she acts that way. 

2. ADDRESS THE MAIN CAUSE WHY SHE IS ACTING THAT WAY

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After having a heart-to-heart talk with your partner, and you already know the main reason why she is acting that way, address it very carefully and acknowledge it so next time you will not do or do whatever she wants you to do. As women are simply being, they just want a man who will accept them for who they are and a man who can hear her sensitive side emotion.

3. GIVE HER ENOUGH SPACE TO RE-THINK

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If she is still acting strange even if you already have talked to her and listened to what makes her feel that way, that is the time that you should give her space and let her fully assess herself as well. She might just want to be alone and if she does love you enough, she will get back to you like nothing ever happened and will sort things out.

4. TAKE A STEP BACK AND ASSESS WHAT CAUSES HER TO PULL HER FEELINGS TOWARDS YOU

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You might give her the time to herself and space for her to think and to breathe but still, you are not able to put up a solution as to where things should be okay, that is the time to reflect and take a step back and realized what major thing you did for him to feel that way. And ask yourself? Do I want to save the relationship? If you do, you know what to is court her again and ignite the passion that has been gone.

5. TAKE THE INITIATIVE TO TAKE AN ACTION TO THE CAUSE AND DO AS WHAT SHE PLEASE

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That is where you will prove that you do love your partner. And do some initiative in making her happy again. Plan a trip that would make her happy. Do extraordinary things that you didn’t experience yet together. By doing something new together, it will give her the idea that you do want things to grow with her.

6. DO NOT QUESTION HER BEHAVIOUR

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This is where things get tricky because men and women do have a different approach to handling a relationship. Probably men do things that for him are fine but for women, it isn’t. In this time manner never question her why is acting that one in the very first place. It might cause her to drove her feelings away more. Women are sensitive, but if you just understand her depth. You will know that she is the most understanding person on this earth. Just think of her as your mother. Just be patient and do not question why she acted that way. Perhaps, talk to her and solve things one step at a time.

7. TAKE ACTION AND IMPROVE THE DYNAMIC OF THE RELATIONSHIP

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The relationship is not as hard as we think. But if we will make it a big deal every time each one of us has an opinion of specific things, things will not be good. So, for your woman to be in love with the thought of having a relationship with you, you should put action and do it as often as you like. Show her that she is worth all of the effort that you gave her. Never stop doing things that make the relationship glorious.

By addressing these ways to your woman, it will make her feel like you are really doing the best that you can in order for the relationship to grow to a level wherein you two will have a lifetime of togetherness ahead.

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